my apartment flooded last week and we’ve had to take my cat to three different places in the past week which I know is stressing him out.
as far as I know he’s only sprayed once on my clothes last week and on one of my sweatshirts this week.
is this because he’s been stressed with moving around so much?
how can I stop this?
we are allowed to be back in our apt friday btw
Brief Answer:
Your assessment is correct: the repeated relocation of your cat to three different places in a single week due to the apartment flood is an intense, acute stressor, and the spraying on your clothes is a clear stress-related or insecurity-driven marking behavior.
Cats often mark items that carry their owner’s strong scent, like clothing, when they feel their core territory and security are severely threatened.
The scent of your clothing is comforting yet also a highly visible, portable target for him to mix his scent with yours to reassert a sense of territory and calm himself during a disruptive, frightening period.
Since you are returning to your apartment soon, the immediate solution is twofold: minimize further stress by keeping him in the current location until Friday without any more moves, and prepare a “safe haven” in the apartment as soon as you return.
You must also clean all sprayed clothing and the area where the clothes were left using a non-toxic enzymatic cleaner to completely break down the urine’s odor and pheromones, which is critical to stop the urge to remark and save dollars on replacement clothes.
This cleaning is a cost-effective necessity, as standard detergent will not work.
Detailed Answer:
The event of spraying on your clothes is a classic presentation of stress-induced inappropriate elimination, often categorized as anxiety marking.
The sudden, repeated displacement from your apartment to three different temporary locations is one of the most severe forms of environmental instability a cat can face.
His world has literally been upended and moved, causing profound insecurity.
Spraying, in this context, is his frantic attempt to manage his terror and re-establish a familiar scent-based perimeter, especially on items, like your clothes, that smell strongly of his most secure resource: you.
The most critical, immediate action is to ensure there are no more moves until you return to the apartment on Friday.
Every transition compounds his anxiety.
Once you are back, you must not simply let him wander into the apartment.
Instead, immediately set up a small, temporary “safe haven” in a quiet room of the apartment that has been fully cleaned and made ready.
This room should contain all his core resources: his litter box, food and water bowls, a comfortable bed, and a few favorite toys and scratching posts.
This contained space will feel less overwhelming than the whole apartment and will allow him to acclimate to the familiar scents and sounds of home in a controlled, non-stressful way.
A Feliway Classic diffuser plugged into this room would also be highly beneficial as it releases synthetic feline facial pheromones that signal safety and security, providing cost-effective pharmaceutical support to lower his anxiety level.
For the clothes themselves, a standard laundry wash will not eliminate the problem.
Cat urine contains concentrated uric acid crystals and powerful marking pheromones that only an enzymatic cleaner can fully neutralize.
You must pre-treat the clothes with a specialized enzymatic laundry boost or cleaner, such as Nature’s Miracle or a similar brand, designed to break down the organic matter and remove the scent completely.
If the scent residue remains, his instinct will drive him to spray those clothes again, making your efforts futile and guaranteeing more ruined clothing.
Following this specialized cleaning protocol is an essential cost-saving measure, protecting your wardrobe from further destruction.
Long-term, as he settles back in, I recommend referencing a structured guide like Cat Spray Stop by Susan Westinghouse.
This resource will provide you with a detailed, phased behavioral plan using environmental adjustments to continue reducing his stress and reinforcing appropriate litter box use after a major disruption like a flood and displacement.
Consistency in routine, including feeding times and play sessions, will be your most valuable tool in restoring his confidence and stopping this stress-related marking cycle for good.